What Relationships mean to us
Today is a special day and so I want to make a special post with a purpose. I feel I need to also make this post because there are...
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The Art of Framing
Framing is a way how we want to perceive the world...
Synergie between Dominant & Submissive
Everybody knows the bond between a Dominant and a Submissive...
Growth as a Dominant
Growth as a Dominant is an important topic but also...
Increasing productivity via BDSM
In my time as a Dominant, I often had the...
Managing a Long Distance Relationship
The curse of being apart – in today’s world where we have...
Collaring a Submissive
I updated this Article to be more resourceful – I...
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Reflection on 2019
I know this blog is wired – its a mix out of personal things and some knowledge I acquired over the years… that said I think this Blog is...
Personal Updates
I could not find the time in the last couple of months to write here.Sadly I have to set my priorities in a different way and cannot put all...
3 Cognitive Problems that Impact Relationships
These are some of the most common cognitive problems I know of – you will encounter them probably for yourself, a friend or partner at least a dozen times...
Why Eye-Contact is so Important
There are some common rules that I often read or hear in the BDSM community. Some examples would be: You can’t orgasm without permission You are not allowed any...
How to have a Secret Language with your Partner
You need a secret Language so you can Communicate with your partner? - Here is how you do that...
Why Journaling is so Important
In this Article, I want to talk a bit about Journaling and why it is so important for us as humans and such a good tool especially in the...
How to Build yourself a Support Network
It is a common thing you get as advice when you enter the BDSM Scene – get a Support Network. But what is a Support Network and should I...
How to write a Letter to your partner about a problem
In this article, I want to give you an overview why Letters are so beneficial, why they have a psychological advantage over talking or a text messaging and I...
How to decide if a Munch is worth it
So let’s be honest – people tell me a lot their munches are not really a good place and ask me if they should still go. So let me...
