Personal Updates
I could not find the time in the last couple of months to write here.Sadly I have to set my priorities in a different way and cannot put all...
Featured Posts
The Art of Framing
Framing is a way how we want to perceive the world …
Synergie between Dominant & Submissive
Everybody knows the bond between a Dominant and a Submissive …
Growth as a Dominant
Growth as a Dominant is an important topic but also …
Increasing productivity via BDSM
In my time as a Dominant, I often had the …
Managing a Long Distance Relationship
The curse of being apart - in today's world where we have …
Collaring a Submissive
A lot of Submissives want to be collared and a …
Public Blog
3 Cognitive Problems that Impact Relationships
These are some of the most common cognitive problems I know of – you will encounter them probably for yourself, a friend or partner at least a dozen times...
Why Eye-Contact is so Important
There are some common rules that I often read or hear in the BDSM community. Some examples would be: You can’t orgasm without permission You are not allowed any...
How to have a Secret Language with your Partner
You need a secret Language so you can Communicate with your partner? - Here is how you do that...
Why Journaling is so Important
In this Article, I want to talk a bit about Journaling and why it is so important for us as humans and such a good tool especially in the...
How to Build yourself a Support Network
It is a common thing you get as advice when you enter the BDSM Scene – get a Support Network. But what is a Support Network and should I...
How to write a Letter to your partner about a problem
In this article, I want to give you an overview why Letters are so beneficial, why they have a psychological advantage over talking or a text messaging and I...
How to decide if a Munch is worth it
So let’s be honest – people tell me a lot their munches are not really a good place and ask me if they should still go. So let me...
Service Submissive
Service Submissives are a sub-type of Submissives and what people often picture when they hear that somebody is serving a Dominant. Service Submissives are the complete opposite to Bratty...
Bratty Submissive
Brats are a sub-type of Submissives and a lot of people have problems understanding them properly. Brats are the complete opposite to a Services Submissive and are often seen...