3 Cognitive Problems that Impact Relationships
These are some of the most common cognitive problems I know of – you will encounter them probably for yourself, a friend or partner at least a dozen times...
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The Art of Framing
Framing is a way how we want to perceive the world …
Synergie between Dominant & Submissive
Everybody knows the bond between a Dominant and a Submissive …
Growth as a Dominant
Growth as a Dominant is an important topic but also …
Increasing productivity via BDSM
In my time as a Dominant, I often had the …
Managing a Long Distance Relationship
The curse of being apart - in today's world where we have …
Collaring a Submissive
A lot of Submissives want to be collared and a …
Why Eye-Contact is so Important
There are some common rules that I often read or hear in the BDSM community. Some examples would be: You can’t orgasm without permission You are not allowed any...
How to have a Secret Language with your Partner
You need a secret Language so you can Communicate with your partner? - Here is how you do that...
Why Journaling is so Important
In this Article, I want to talk a bit about Journaling and why it is so important for us as humans and such a good tool especially in the...
How to Build yourself a Support Network
It is a common thing you get as advice when you enter the BDSM Scene – get a Support Network. But what is a Support Network and should I...
How to write a Letter to your partner about a problem
In this article, I want to give you an overview why Letters are so beneficial, why they have a psychological advantage over talking or a text messaging and I...
How to decide if a Munch is worth it
So let’s be honest – people tell me a lot their munches are not really a good place and ask me if they should still go. So let me...
Service Submissive
Service Submissives are a sub-type of Submissives and what people often picture when they hear that somebody is serving a Dominant. Service Submissives are the complete opposite to Bratty...
Bratty Submissive
Brats are a sub-type of Submissives and a lot of people have problems understanding them properly. Brats are the complete opposite to a Services Submissive and are often seen...
Upgrades to the Blog
The Blog grows and I’m really happy about that – please if you have the time I would really appreciate a message why you like the Blog via my contact...
The Art of Framing
Framing is a way how we want to perceive the world – I say “want to” because framing plays with cognitive bias effects like confirmation bias and perceiving situations as a...
Dominant Exchange
Dominants don’t talk… much! But we should! This is especially true if it is about discussing mistakes or problematic situations. We have thousands of websites that talk about what...
What is a Metamorph?
You ever know a Dominant or Submissive that could just play with everybody? If so, you probably know what I call a Metamorph… I borrowed that name from a...
Saying Thanks
I personally am very thankful today and in the past months for a lot of people around me. I think we all should try to be thankful for what...
How to celebrate special days
We all know the Special days that come along once in a while. For me, the most important dates are Birthdays, relationship anniversary, Christmas and special one time occasions....
