Today is a special day and so I want to make a special post with a purpose. I feel I need to also make this post because there are a lot of people now that don’t get what the concept of a committed relationship actually means. I know it sounds Read more…
I know this blog is wired – its a mix out of personal things and some knowledge I acquired over the years… that said I think this Blog is exactly the right way… It´s the end of the year and I like to reflect on what I did – the Read more…
I could not find the time in the last couple of months to write here.Sadly I have to set my priorities in a different way and cannot put all my free time in this blog. Because this Blog is very Important to me and some people even send me private Read more…
These are some of the most common cognitive problems I know of – you will encounter them probably for yourself, a friend or partner at least a dozen times in your life. So I think it makes sense to spend 5 minutes on them because they are always leading to Read more…
There are some common rules that I often read or hear in the BDSM community. Some examples would be: You can’t orgasm without permission You are not allowed any underwear You can’t close or cross your legs There is one more that I often read about but never really understood: Read more…
You need a secret Language so you can Communicate with your partner? – Here is how you do that…
In this Article, I want to talk a bit about Journaling and why it is so important for us as humans and such a good tool especially in the context of BDSM. In a way, this is not only about BDSM but more about how we all work as human Read more…
It is a common thing you get as advice when you enter the BDSM Scene – get a Support Network. But what is a Support Network and should I think about how to build it? The short answer is Yes, you should!So let me try to explain why you should Read more…
In this article, I want to give you an overview why Letters are so beneficial, why they have a psychological advantage over talking or a text messaging and I will even give you a little Blueprint how to write them in a way your partner will most likely appreciate it. Read more…
So let’s be honest – people tell me a lot their munches are not really a good place and ask me if they should still go. So let me try to open up a bit about my personal mindset on this. Your Goal You need to set a Goal for Read more…