Bratty Submissive

Brats are a sub-type of Submissives and a lot of people have problems understanding them properly. Brats are the complete opposite to a Services Submissive and are often seen as a more demanding version of a typical Submissive. Brats need a dedicated Dominant to spend time and energy on and Read more…

Upgrades to the Blog

The Blog grows and I’m really happy about that – please if you have the time I would really appreciate a message why you like the Blog via my contact page! I have also planned to add new Sections to the Blog with new reading material and with hands-on training tips and Read more…

The Art of Framing

Framing is a way how we want to perceive the world – I say “want to” because framing plays with cognitive bias effects like confirmation bias and perceiving situations as a gain or loss, regardless of what they actually are. To Complex? So here is an example: A normal D/s couple goes Read more…

Dominant Exchange

Dominants don’t talk… much! But we should! This is especially true if it is about discussing mistakes or problematic situations. We have thousands of websites that talk about what and how you can do stuff but only very few are actually about common mistakes and how to resolve them. One Read more…

What is a Metamorph?

You ever know a Dominant or Submissive that could just play with everybody? If so, you probably know what I call a Metamorph… I borrowed that name from a Star Trek Episode (TNG, Episode 5×21 – yes you can learn about the “perfect” Submissive in Star Trek) to describe a Read more…

Saying Thanks

I personally am very thankful today and in the past months for a lot of people around me. I think we all should try to be thankful for what we have and these are not empty words so let me explain a bit in detail. As the follower of this Read more…

How to celebrate special days

We all know the Special days that come along once in a while. For me, the most important dates are Birthdays, relationship anniversary, Christmas and special one time occasions. However, I don’t like to celebrate birthdays for myself. This year, for instance, I didn’t feel up to enjoy my birthday Read more…

How to rebuild trust

We all make mistakes – that’s a fact! Sometimes our mistakes are much harder than others to rectify or to forgive… be it that we lied to our partner or let them down in ways they expected us to stand up for them… When Trust is broken there is a Read more…