How to rebuild trust

We all make mistakes – that’s a fact! Sometimes our mistakes are much harder than others to rectify or to forgive… be it that we lied to our partner or let them down in ways they expected us to stand up for them… When Trust is broken there is a Read more…

Why Connect to the BDSM Community?

Should everybody connect to the BDSM Community? Does it depend on anything? [alert type=”info” icon-size=”big”]Please read the whole article, I describe some of my negative experiences first because of the chronological order. Also because every community is different I try to show a lot of the experiences I made over Read more…

Growth as a Dominant

Growth as a Dominant is an important topic but also very neglected. When I was asked by a chat-friend about it my first reaction wasn’t very positive because usually, people think Dominants don’t need to grow anymore, after all they are the Experienced ones, right? I do understand where it comes Read more…

Increasing productivity via BDSM

In my time as a Dominant, I often had the pleasure to help people with their productivity – it is amazing what some people can accomplish if you only give them the right tools for it. I think we don’t do enough on that front but that’s another topic… In my time Read more…

How to keep a promiscuous Slut

So here is some hands-on advice to the Mindset and handling of a promiscuous Slut. – A lot is probably applicable to men as well but I am straight so I can just share my experience with women. So let us first define what a promiscuous Slut is… A promiscuous Slut is Read more…

Menstrual cup

Let’s face it… In no relationship that includes a woman you can get around the topic of female hygiene and how you handle the “red time of the month” in play. So here a hands-on quick guide of one of the best hygiene products I know – Menstrual Cups Here is why Read more…

Setting the mood for play

Setting the mood for play is an Art – one that a lot of Dominants don’t care about but it is really amazing what you can do with just a little bit of foresight. Most of the ideas here are also low budget and don’t cost much time or effort… Read more…

Collaring a Submissive

I updated this Article to be more resourceful – I explain a little about Collars in general, how they are used, why they are used and also my personal experience with the concept and how I use them. But in general, there is no real protocol, no real rules, and Read more…

Being compatible with your Partner

Being Compatible with your Dominant/Submissive is a huge deal and a lot strive for something perfect, no wonder also that a lot of questions are around that topic. It’s a very cool dream that you get the perfect partner that loves you and that its exactly what you need when Read more…