Public Blog about what I experience and parts of my life
I don’t know why but sometimes you have days that have a certain topic. Yesterday was such a day, I got multiple questions about emotional distance in D/s relationships and I wanted to write down my perspective on this topic. Let me prefix this by saying: I am poly and Read more…
So you want to know in what place a Dominant like me is born? I don’t know about every Dominant but I know about me and where I came from. I came from the darkest corner of despair, desperation, and self-doubt. When I started to become a Dominant I felt Read more…
Yesterday I was in a chat where the topic was Jealousy by a Dominant – he didn’t agree that his submissive had other male partners but the female would be okay. What really bugged me about the conversation that I followed was that people would just discard the issue as Read more…
As somebody who was accused of sharing too much and too little and also being clingy and being distant (sometimes all at the same time and in the same relationship!) I know a bit about sharing information, views and personal details. In past relationships, I tried out different ways (not with Read more…
In a way, it´s a bit weird but I got this question over and over again in the last 4 weeks when I was discussing BDSM on Munches and in chats. Let me start with stating I’m a huge fan of giving words your own meaning for your own private context. Read more…
Something a lot of people in today’s time don’t understand is that discussions can and should be able to become adversarial… It’s an art to discuss something to the fullest extent and then go back to being friends and not many really can do it in today’s world because everybody believes Read more…
So let me start with the following: I hate Sport and Excercise! – I do like to watch it but I actually don’t like to do it – when I have to start! For a long time, I saw exercise as a waste of time – I don’t have a physically Read more…
This is kind of a side post about my own feelings around this topic of having different people for your love relationship and your play partner. The main Post about this Topic you can find here I don’t know if it´s still my love for her or just coincidence but Read more…
As awful as the munch yesterday was so had it a couple of discussions I liked. One particularly long discussion was between some more mature (i don’t want to say “old” 😉 ) people about having a love relationship and a D/s relationship. The consense between the 5 people there was that your Read more…
Cooking is something I enjoy when I have company and I can just enjoy the process. I like when submissives cook for me and I love to cook together with my submissives. It´s not only about getting food – it is also about having fun and making something together to enjoy Read more…