How to have a Secret Language with your Partner
You need a secret Language so you can Communicate with your partner? – Here is how you do that…
Why Journaling is so Important
In this Article, I want to talk a bit about Journaling and why it is so important for us as humans and such a good tool especially in the context of BDSM. In a way, this is not only about BDSM but more about how we all work as human Read more…
How to write a Letter to your partner about a problem
In this article, I want to give you an overview why Letters are so beneficial, why they have a psychological advantage over talking or a text messaging and I will even give you a little Blueprint how to write them in a way your partner will most likely appreciate it. Read more…
How to celebrate special days
We all know the Special days that come along once in a while. For me, the most important dates are Birthdays, relationship anniversary, Christmas and special one time occasions. However, I don’t like to celebrate birthdays for myself. This year, for instance, I didn’t feel up to enjoy my birthday Read more…
Increasing productivity via BDSM
In my time as a Dominant, I often had the pleasure to help people with their productivity – it is amazing what some people can accomplish if you only give them the right tools for it. I think we don’t do enough on that front but that’s another topic… In my time Read more…
Managing a Long Distance Relationship
The curse of being apart – in today’s world where we have globalization it is easy to fall in love or find play partners… sadly most of the time they are not in reach, so here are some things you can do to make the relationship work. Trust me when I say Read more…
Collaring a Submissive
A lot of Submissives want to be collared and a lot just are… I want to give my view on that and what it means for me – some people will find my view romantic, others will understand why and how I feel this way… Different CollarsSo let us start Read more…
Emotional distance to your Submissive
I don’t know why but sometimes you have days that have a certain topic. Yesterday was such a day, I got multiple questions about emotional distance in D/s relationships and I wanted to write down my perspective on this topic. Let me prefix this by saying: I am poly and Read more…
Why Excercise is valuable
So let me start with the following: I hate Sport and Excercise! – I do like to watch it but I actually don’t like to do it – when I have to start! For a long time, I saw exercise as a waste of time – I don’t have a physically Read more…